Okay, so I work for a large US company. This company has embraced an attitude of tolerance, inclusion, and acceptance. To a point.
This morning, I walked by a cubicle, which has an 8" x 11" poster prominently displayed promoting a men's "re-education" group, who's intent is to make men more accountable, and instill integrity. So, I looked up "
The Mankind Project" to see what they were about.
As far as I can tell, they have very honorable intentions. This is a positive, acceptable organization.
Back in the late 1990's, I worked in a group of technicians, and our office space was setup in an open, "farm" type manner. All technicians shared office space regardless of gender - I make mention of this because it's key to this subject.
One day, a female technician taped up a full page newspaper article about the group "
PromiseKeepers" because her husband had attended one of their meetings, and she saw a positive change in him, so she was all for it.
I've never been to one of their meetings, but I was aware of what they promoted. The article was near my desk, and I had no issue with it, I agreed with their premise that men need to be more accountable, and to have integrity. Sound familiar?
A problem arose from this article. I shared a desk with a young lady who worked the shift after me. For several days, I would come in and find the article taken down, and watch as the female tech on my shift taped it back up. Then one day the article was missing, and I was called to my managers desk.
It turned out that the woman I shared my desk with was a lesbian, and she took issue with the article - she found PromiseKeepers to be offensive to her, and her lifestyle. She was mad that the article kept getting put back up, and assumed I was responsible. She turned the article in to her manager with a complaint. This was passed on to my manager, since
I was the suspected "offender."
My manager took a laminated, rolled item of her bookshelf, unrolled it, placed it in front of me and asked me if I recognized it. Well, it was the PromiseKeepers article, so of course I told her I did. She then explained about how someone was offended by it, and the whole story about it being taken down and put back up. I realized what was going on, and let her continue with her accusation, feeling very confident in my situation, since it was another
woman that was posting it.
When she was done, I informed her that it wasn't my article, and that another person, a female, was responsible for it. After learning about this she realized the mistake, but instead of an apology for a false accusation that could have easily cost me my job, I was reprimanded for not stopping this "offense," since I was a senior tech in that area.
The female tech I shared my desk with was unapologetic, yet accepted a transfer to another state shortly after this.
The point here is that no one has complained about this "Mankind" poster. Why? It's because of the difference between the two. Both endeavor to bring men to an understanding and acceptance of their responsibilities to family, friends, and community. But PromiseKeepers adds one more level of accountability - to God. And that's the rub.